Most estate planning conversations focus on wills, insurance, and property. All of that matters.
But for most families today, the harder problem isn't the paperwork, it's the passwords.
Email accounts, cloud storage, banking portals, photo libraries, streaming subscriptions: a significant portion of your financial life and personal history now exists entirely online. If something happened to you, your family would need access to that world. In most households, nobody has thought through how that would actually work.
Seven concrete steps to get it organized. For the full detail behind each one, our digital footprint page goes deeper.
1. Set up Apple Legacy Contact (takes under 10 minutes)
If you have an iPhone, iPad, or Mac, Apple's Legacy Contact feature lets you designate someone to access your iCloud account after your death: photos, notes, contacts, messages, files. This is a formal access pathway, not your password.
To set it up: Settings → your name → Sign-In & Security → Legacy Contact. Your designated contact can request access from Apple with a copy of the death certificate. Do this today. It's the single highest-value ten minutes on this list.
2. Configure Google's Inactive Account Manager
Go to myaccount.google.com/inactive. Google's tool lets you decide how long to wait before the account is considered inactive, which trusted contacts can access which Google data (Gmail, Drive, Photos, YouTube, Calendar), and whether the account should eventually be deleted.
This one matters more than most people realize: if a family member can access your Gmail, they can often use it to recover or reset access to dozens of other accounts. Your email is frequently the master key to everything else.
3. Name a Facebook Legacy Contact
Facebook lets you designate someone to manage your memorialized profile — pinning tributes, updating profile information, downloading content you've authorized. Settings & Privacy → Settings → Memorialization Settings.
A Legacy Contact cannot log in as you, read your private messages, or remove friends. Their role is specifically to manage the public-facing memorial. Worth doing regardless.
4. Document your accounts by category
You don't need to list every account you've ever created. Work through these categories and note what applies to you:
Email — your primary address is often the master key to account recovery everywhere else.
Financial — banking websites, investment platforms, retirement portals, payment apps like Venmo or PayPal.
Cloud storage — wherever your photos and documents live. Google Drive, iCloud, Dropbox, OneDrive. Families regularly discover years of irreplaceable photos locked behind an inaccessible account.
Subscriptions — Netflix, Spotify, subscription boxes. These don't need to be accessed; they need to be canceled. Without a record, they can charge for months after someone is gone.
Business accounts — if you run a website, online store, or digital business, your domain registrar, hosting account, and platform logins are critical for whoever handles your affairs.
5. Get a password manager or document what you have
If you use a password manager (1Password, LastPass, Bitwarden, Dashlane), one entry in your Nokbox is often enough: the name of the tool and where the master password is stored. One master password unlocks hundreds of accounts.
If you don't use one, document the accounts that matter most—email, banking, cloud storage—and keep that record somewhere your trusted person can find. You don't owe your family every login. You owe them a starting point.
6. Make sure your devices can be accessed
A locked phone or laptop can set a family back weeks. Write down your device PIN and store it with your other important information. The Nokbox Companion Password Book is a dedicated, organized place for credentials and device access information that sits alongside your Nokbox.
7. Review your settings every year or two
Digital platform legacy features change more frequently than estate planning law does. The steps above reflect settings as of 2026. Revisiting them is worth adding to whatever annual review you have, the same way you'd check beneficiary designations on a retirement account.
Where the Nokbox fits
The Nokbox Base Kit includes dedicated folders for digital accounts, passwords, and online information, organized so your family has a clear starting point rather than a locked screen and a pile of guesses. It bridges your digital life and the physical documents your next of kin will need.
Your family can't access what they can't find. These seven steps are how you make sure they can.
Get your digital life organized — while you still can.
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Quick answers
What is a digital estate?
All of your online accounts, digital files, and digital assets: email, cloud storage, financial platforms, social media, cryptocurrency, digital photos, and subscriptions. Increasingly significant and almost universally overlooked in traditional estate planning.
Can my family access my accounts after I die?
That depends on the platform and whether you've taken steps to grant access. Without legacy contact designations or documented credentials, many accounts become inaccessible or only accessible through a slow process requiring court documentation. The steps above prevent that.
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